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Fuck Love

 What a mess I've gotten myself into. 

I don't think I like who I am when I'm in love. Is this love? He says it is. But it is too reminiscent of Nathan...of texts and emails and phone calls that go unanswered. 

Pulling back, in anticipation of him ending it. Does that mean I've ended it? Do I get dibs on fucking off?

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